The number one question I get (well besides “Are they all yours?”) is “Where in the world do you find the time to read so much?”
Usually this is asked in an innocent and kind way. Sometimes? It’s asked in a snarky you-must-neglect-your-children-type way. Why yes, Debbie! I do put my children in a cage so I can read. Shrug.
I used to feel that I had to hide the number of books I read. It seemed like every time I excitedly shared a new book, someone was just waiting to burst my bubble and steal my joy.
But dude. Ain’t nobody got time for that anymore.
Where do I find the time to read?
The long answer? Some of us work full time, some of us volunteer. Some run marathons or teach CrossFit classes. Some of us arrange flowers or scrapbook or quilt or knit or bake. Some of us read. All the time. In every spare moment that we can find. It doesn’t make me better or worse than a Netflix binge watcher or an ultra marathon trainer. It makes me…me.
I am also a really fast reader. Like…REALLY fast. Jimmy likes to watch my eyeballs- he swears I’ve taken a secret speed-reading class. I haven’t. Ha!
I read. It’s what I do. It’s my lifeline and my passion and my heart and my therapy and my sanity and my escape. I read with my children, to my children, in front of my children. Readers make readers.
Where do I find the time to read- the short answer?
With my girls. A book for them, a book for me.
In the carpool line.
In the bath.
Watching Cora in the bath.
While I blow dry my hair.
I stay up hours later than everyone else.
I listen to books on audio when I’m driving, cooking, cleaning, walking, and folding laundry.Tip: pair a hard copy of a book with an audiobook. Alternate depending on what you have time for, you will fly through it!
I read one chapter after I wake up in the morning.
“Watching” football and “Rewatching” Game of Thrones with Jimmy.
During homework supervision
Waiting for the dentist.
Waiting for the doctor.
Waiting for water to boil or for the Instant Pot to come to pressure.
At the pool when my kids swim.
Basketball, volleyball, cheerleading, soccer practice.
On the metro (when I was in DC)
When J is driving on road trips.
Waiting in the drive through line.
At the playground with the girls.
During the random stuff at the beginning of a movie, before previews start.
Waiting for a pizza at Costco.
Waiting for church to start.
At the beach.
At the ski lodge.
While I’m walking (not kidding).
I take a book EVERYWHERE. A literal book. And I read it whenever I can find snippets of time. You’d be amazed how fast 5-10 minutes here and there add up.
Remember. We all have the same amount of hours in the day. Don’t ever let anyone make you feel inferior for using your hours to read voraciously.
Happy Thursday, y’all!
xoxo