10 years.
4 children.
5 states.
2 apartments.
6 houses.
10 deployments
50 months apart
3 childbirths together
1 childbirth apart
3 cross country road trips
7 times packing up our belongings
8 times unpacking our belongings
2 surgeries
4 girls
countless letters,emails, long distance phone calls
a few arguments
a fair amount of misunderstandings
lots of tears
so much worry
bliss
frustration
sheer panic
teamwork
communication
respect
more love than i could ever put into words on this blog.
ten years ago today i married my hero, my best friend, and the love of my life.
i never ever ever could have known what God would show us, teach us, and put us through.
over the years we have been through more than i could have imagined.
but through it all, the good times and the bad, there has been a finely woven thread of respect.
faith.
love.
honor.
dedication.
commitment.
he is a steady presence in my life. his hand on the small of my back? gives me the confidence to do ANYTHING.
he is my anchor.
i am the silly one. the social butterfly.
he is the rock.
i am so grateful.
so so so so so grateful.
he is the best husband, the best father, the best man.
he loves me in a slow, steady, constant, respectful way. and this is the best gift he could give our daughters.
he is gentle and kind and shows them how a man should treat a woman.
we are a great team. and after 10 years there is still so much to learn.
so much growing to do.
so many mistakes to make (and learn from).
there is no one that i’d rather have holding my hand.
happy anniversary, james carr howell.
god only knows what i’d be without you.
xo
S
Lynn says
Happy anniversary to you and Jimmy. Wishing the two of you and your beautiful girls many, many more years of happiness together.
Jen O. says
You certainly have a way with words…just beautiful. Happy Anniversary to you both!
Kimber-Leigh says
happy tenth stephanie and jimmy! what a beautiful reflection on your life together…may God continue to bless you!
Jackee Garcia says
happy Anniversary to you both! May God continue to reveal himself to you and your husband!
Marti Richards says
Happy Anniversary to you both!
Michelle says
Happy Anniversary Steph and Jimmy!!! Wishing you many, many more wonderful years!!
Sara Berry says
Happy Anniversary, you two! Much love, the Berrys 🙂
Linda in Aus says
Happy Anniversary to you both, enjoy your special day and heres to the next ten.
xx
Christine F. says
What a sweet, sweet post. Congratulations on 10 years of marriage – may God bless you with many, many more years of happiness!
Miriam Prantner says
Happy Anniversary! I remember your post from last year when J was away and Harper and Sadie had a party with you. What a blessing this year is, and what a wonderful family you have!
Jenna says
Happy anniversary!
Nita K. says
Happy Anniversary!
Sarah K says
Aw, geez. I’m crying. This is so beautiful, Stephanie. Congrats on your tenth anniversary!
Cathie says
Happy Anniversary! Love the concept of this blog post so much. I hope you don’t mind if I borrow it for my own anniversary and birthday.
Jonnelle says
Happy anniversary! What sweet words, I can hear you pouring your heart out, wow you’re inspirational.
Ann Lind says
Such a lovely tribute to the most important person in your life. Happy Anniversary and here’s to a life time of happiness together. Congrats on your 10 year milestone.
stacey says
I have tears in my eyes you lovely woman, I hope he reads this and keeps it forever. I wish you another fifty years and more xx
jung a says
happy 10 years!
laura kate says
A beautiful post. Happy Anniversary!
Kelley says
Here is to 10 more many times over!
Lissa says
happy anniversary!!!! Cheers to many more!!!
Krista says
CONGRATULATIONS!!!! What a wonderful milestone. Prayers to you guys for many many many more.
rkokes says
Congratulations and Happy Anniversary! 🙂
diana says
Happy 10th! Next year it will be “Buon undicesimo anniversario!”. Life is an adventure, for sure. 😉
Ruth says
Many congratulations!
Laura says
Happy anniversary, S & J! This part gave me chills: “he loves me in a slow, steady, constant, respectful way. and this is the best gift he could give our daughters. he is gentle and kind and shows them how a man should treat a woman.” He is lucky to have you and you are lucky to have him . . . and the fact that you both feel that way . . . is a beautiful thing. May God bless you and your marriage and your four gorgeous girls.
Gracie says
Happy Anniversary to a beautiful couple! Although I am just an online, know-through-the scrapbook-world person, you have shared your life and your family with all of us so sweetly. I hope you have a beautiful day of celebration! 🙂
laurie lariviere says
wow this blog post just sums up marriage in the most perfect way! Happy 10 years, and btw, you were a gorgeous bride, J must have been a happy guy when he first saw you that day 🙂 That’s my fave part of a wedding, the grooms face when he sees his bride…
Cath says
Happy anniversary. It’s a special day for me too as its our katys 10th birthday today.
libbywilko says
Happy Anniversary to you both, what a lovely blog post. Best Wishes.
clippergirl says
This is such a beautiful, sweet post Steph. Happy 10th Anniversary! I love “Love Stories” and this is a great one! Cheers to you both!
Tonya Dirk says
Big congratulations…double digits!!! Here’s to MANY more!
Deb says
Congrats! That is the most gorgeous blog post. Love it
Ginna G says
Congrats
Linda Coleman says
So sweet. Happy anniversary!
k says
Congratulations and blessings to a beautiful couple! How did you two meet anyway? k
Bessie Segal says
Congratulations on your tenth wedding anniversary. May you both be blessed with many, many more years of love and joy together.
Mary Ann Jenkins says
Congratulations, and Happy Anniversary Jimmy & Stephanie!!
dawn says
Happy Anniversary!!! Happy 10 years together and many more to come!! I love the way you write, brings tears to my eyes and fills me with hope for anything/everything. My hubby is pretty amazing too and we will be celebrating our anniversary in 2 more days. Have a wonderful weekend celebrating with your man!!
Dawn S says
What a beautiful post! Congrats!!
Gayle W. says
This is just beautiful. And sweet. And so filled with love. Happy Anniversary. xoxo
Diana Waite says
CONGRATS to you two!
kate says
happy anniversary!
Becca says
Happy Anniversary! And may you have many, many more happy years together. Becca 🙂
Jenn V says
Happy Anniversary!! So happy for you. Wonderful blog post.
MilliD says
Happy, happy anniversary!!! Lovely words. By the way, Jimmy is lucky and blessed, too. 🙂
Rachel W says
Happy Anniversary. And thank you or blogging your story. I love following along.
christina rayevich says
congrats to you two & many many many more!
our 10year was on march 1 =))
xo
Christine Campbell says
tears…congrats again!! xxoo
Vera W. Yates says
Happy anniversary, Stephanie!! Love this post.
Kristine says
Congratulations! God brings amazing people into our lives and blesses us in ways we could never had imagined on our own!
Koko @ Koko Likes says
Yall are so darn cute!!!!
Renee S. says
What a great ride. May your next 10 years be filled with as much happiness as your first 10! Congratulations.
Tash says
Lovely post (read almost a month late!) – we have our 10th coming up this year too – and I feel the same way 🙂